Business Is Burning

Editorial Article: The Shift From Transactional to Relational Ways of Being in Business

Author’s Note: In a world driven by urgency, speed, and transactional relationships, business as we know it is burning out. This editorial article explores a new paradigm—Aquarian Business—a vision of commerce rooted in connection, reciprocity, and shared transformation. It’s a call to rethink how we approach business, not as a system of extraction but as a living practice of communion. As the old models crumble, this is an invitation to step into something slower, more intentional, and deeply relational.

This piece was revisited and refined in March 2025 as part of Erah Society’s evolution. Originally published on Oct. 13th, 2022, it now reflects the heart and essence of this space more clearly. Thank you for being part of this journey.

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For years, I moved through business as I had been taught—prioritize efficiency, measure my worth through metrics, separate work from the more intimate spaces of my life.

And yet, there was a quiet but deep discomfort, a sense that something was missing.

Still, I ignored the discomfort. Niched down, followed the trusted models, checked the right boxes. Hoping to convince myself that if I just refined my offer, reached the next milestone, then fulfillment would come. Undefined success can be a devious thing.

Instead, I found myself exhausted. Burnout. Disconnected. Physically sick. Successful, but not fulfilled. The more I gave, the more transactional it became. Relationships I wanted to deepen reduced to sales funnels. Creativity disowned for conversion rates. Exchanges that felt fleeting, hastened, stripped away of the very thing, the spirit that had drawn me to this path in the first place.

The more I let the unease speak, the louder it became: the old way of doing business was not built for the person that I am or the belonging that I craved. It was built for urgency, I was built for slowness. It demanded separation, I desired collaboration. It yearned for accumulation, I craved gathering. It dawned on me, that accumulation is not the same as wealth. And speed is not the same as sustainability. I wanted something new, something of our times, something just on the verge of emerging, waiting to take form.

The words arrived like an initiation: Aquarian Business is relational, not transactional.

Commerce As A Form of Communion

This new paradigm of business asks us to cultivate intimacy with something we were conditioned to keep distant. Now commerce, the art of exchange, once imagined as cold and impersonal, becomes a space of connection, reciprocity, and shared transformation.

When I chose to step into this paradigm—as an Aquarian Entrepreneur—I knew I had to ask new questions.

How does this product or service truly support another?

• Beyond results and promises.

• Not just on the surface, but beneath it.

• Under their skin. To the core of their being.

And what do I receive in return?

• Beyond dollars and payment.

• Not just on the surface, but beneath it.

• Under my skin. To the core of my being.

Because the essence of true exchange is that it outlives the moment of transaction for us all.

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Dismantling the Illusion of Separateness

There was a time when wealth was measured in generations, land passed down like language. Fortunes built with the understanding that what was created today would ripple into the future —a legacy built slowly, intentionally, with an awareness of continuity beyond one lifetime. But somewhere along the way, our rhythms fractured. A mosaic of human continuity broken apart, it’s pieces sold to the highest bidder.

At its core, business was always designed to be relational—an extension and reflection of community, an exchange of trust, a result of belonging. Now, success is measured in seasonal launches. Remembered only because of the strenuous cycles of speed and urgency to produce.

As a result, we have built walls to filter what is “mine” from what is “yours,” giving our power to these barriers rather than tending to communal togetherness. “Survival of the fittest” was never our nature—it was our nurture. Taught to us as a device to ward off lack but cloaked under the veil of fear. Fear that there would never be enough. But look around, is this Earth not the singular definition of abundance itself?

I have seen how power this thick can be weaponized—how it has been used to both exalt and to bury. But more than anything, I see my choice in what comes next.

We often speak to dismantling oppressive structures but this time it’s simple, not easy. All we have to do is step ten toes deep into the uncomfortable intimacy of interdependence. To recognize that we do not exist in isolation. That we are part of a living system, mirroring one another in ways we do not always see but can’t deny exist.

There is no one without the other. No man is an island, my mom always said.

The rewards of returning to this way of being are abundant. But they ask for something in return.

A relinquishing of individual status. A dissolution of hierarchy.

Not in anarchy.

But in synarchy—shared power, collective ascension, a structure built not on dominion, but on harmony.

Because the future of business is not about who stands at the top but about who is willing to get there together.

With gratitude & grace,
Jasmine

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